Men: Nature’s Second Sex


Pity the poor male springbok. As soon as he reaches sexual maturity, he is pushed out of the herd by the dominant male. Alone on the plains, he is easy picking for lions, leopards and cheetahs.

The best survival strategy is to team up with other young males and form a bachelor herd. It's safer, but still lonely. Hence a bachelor springbok will repeatedly challenge the dominant male, risking injury and death.

It's not easy being the dominant male, either. Dominant male springbok are so busy mating with females, stopping members of their harem from wandering off, and fending off challengers that they have no time to eat. After a short period of dominance, they are so weakened by their efforts that they, too, become easy pickings for predators.

From time to time one reads an article claiming that men are "tomorrow's second sex" or worrying about the disappearance of manhood. Men are failing at school, these articles claim. Women dominate employment in the sectors that are growing in modern economies, while traditionally male jobs are in decline. Men won't take traditionally female jobs, hence are stuck in joblessness. Men without work don't get married, don't form families, aren't socialized to behave in a responsible fashion, and are a generally a social problem.

Yet a brief tour of the natural world suggests that, far from being exceptional, social exclusion of males – and accompanying social problems – is perfectly normal. Young male lions, just kicked out of the pride, are the ones who wander into villages, attack farm animals, and cause many lion-human conflicts. Young male baboons are the adventurous ones breaking into houses and stealing food from kitchens. Lone bull elephants are dangerous and potentially deadly.

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The lone male springbok a.k.a. lion food.

 

Biology is not destiny, and humans are much smarter and more flexible than lions and springboks. Still, observing other species is a way of opening our minds, and re-thinking what we "know" about ourselves. Take, for example, the claim made by Hanna Rossin – famous for her book "The End of Men and the Rise of Women" – that "Man has been the dominant sex since, well, the dawn of mankind." If our earliest ancestors were anything like other large African mammals, they might have lived in communities where a few men were dominant, and a lot of men were marginalized and socially excluded.

Observing other species calls into question the idea that the failure of some men to succeed is the fault of feminism, or those who would "civilize boys by diminishing their masculinity. Christina Hoff Sommers – author of "The War Against Boys" – argues that boys are falling behind in school because peope are following  "Gloria Steinem's advice" to "Raise boys like we raise girls"

In the wild, it's the dominant males who push out the "teenage" males. In business? Which story do you think is more plausible: (a) senior (mostly male) executives choose to hire women because they work hard, don't demand such high salaries, are well-trained, don't make trouble, and aren't a threat (b) senior (mostly male) executives choose to hire women in response to pressure from feminist groups. I'm going with (a) – as one entrepreneur told me recently (in a moment of truth) "I don't hire men; they drink too much and they're not reliable."  

Considering other species makes one realize the crucial importance of productive and reproductive technologies. A single male springbok can mate with many females and have many offspring because, basically, the male springbok contributes nothing but sperm to the process of reproduction. Hornbills have to be monogamous because both males and females play crucial nuturing roles. The female hornbill and the couples' eggs are enclosed in a nest that is almost completely sealed off. The female relies upon her partner to bring her food. Without him, she would starve. 

Humans are endlessly adaptable. Washing machines and microwaves, food processors and vaccuum cleaners are engines of liberation. It's technology, not ideology, that has freed women from the life of hornbills, sequestered in the nest, completely reliant on their partner for sustenance. Technology also means that men don't have to be like hornbills, either, desperately trying to find enough food for themselves and their partners and the chicks. Men just need to find food for one person – themselves – and then they can bog off down to the pub.

It's telling, I think, that so many of the people who write about the decline of men – Christina Hoff Sommers, Hanna Rossin – are women. It's partly, I suspect, that some are mothers, and deeply concerned about their sons. It's partly that women are more comfortable criticizing feminists, and more likely to think feminism is important and worth criticizing, than men are.

But I'm also wondering if the male of the species, stepping back and looking at things from a rational, self-interested, economic perspective, has decided that a carefree life in the bachelor herd is better than fighting a battle he knows he can't win.

[this post has been edited in response to comments below].

64 comments

  1. Patrick's avatar

    “carefree life in the bachelor herd might not be such a bad thing.”
    As you point out, lots of young men running around with nothing to do and no hope of ever getting laid is not a recipe for social stability. I’m imagining US gun laws crossed with herds of idle, sex starved young men. Something like Mad Max meets The Handmaid’s Tale.

  2. Frances Woolley's avatar

    Patrick – “idle, sex starved young men”
    There are still sexy video games, and the seemingly limitless supply of free porn on the internet – I seriously wonder if/how much that matters.

  3. sure?'s avatar

    I feel like this post needs a touch of revision. The – to my reading – suggestion that men shouldn’t protest being increasingly marginalized in higher education, that men are ‘unwilling to take traditionally female jobs’, that men are inherently social trouble, seems ridiculous. Quote biology all you want – we could likewise cite animals to argue that women shouldn’t participate in the formal labor force, should focus on reproduction instead of other life goals, should not ascend to positions of authority, and so on. Hopefully you also agree these are also ridiculous notions, but if you want to accept the first set for men, you must also accept the second. Yet I can’t see you recommending to a majority of women that ‘carefree life as a housewife might not be such a bad thing’.
    Humans are distinctly different from every other animal species on the planet, and I can easily believe we’ve developed unique psychology, behaviors, etc. I can buy evolutionary arguments, but not without citing at least some evidence among humans.
    Either way, I feel it’s completely inappropriate content for WCI.

  4. scepticus's avatar
    scepticus · · Reply

    “Humans are distinctly different from every other animal species on the planet”
    How, exactly? In terms of actual metrics that are measurable, not wooly fluffy anthropocentric stuff….

  5. K's avatar

    Also, alpha males in charge! Women are happier and more fulfilled when they reconcile themselves to their naturally submissive and subservient roles in the workplace as well as in the herd!

  6. Patrick's avatar

    Could be.
    We could always castrate all but a few of the least worthy men. That’d keep them quiet.

  7. Ben's avatar

    Evolution does not occur in 50 years (specifically the last 50 years). Any advancements made by women since the 1950s have been allowed by men. If that were not the case then women would have achieved dominance of our species at some point in the last 50,000 years. They haven’t. When you construct a society to promote female tendencies (whether the reasons be guilt-driven or driven by giving everyone a pat on the back) and admonish male tendencies, the only outcome can be that women will succeed. However, women will never be able to fully dominate a society because they cannot dominate men. Try to say with a straight face that a woman could. Every advancement that allows a woman to be on top has been created and facilitated by a man, and therefore allowed by a man. Even those creations, and the most significant social inventions of the last few decades (Silicon chips, the PC, The Internet, HTTP, the WWW, Facebook, Twitter, Google) that allow women to declare their supremacy, were ALL envisioned, developed, and cultivated by men. When a single woman innovates and achieves anything of that magnitude your position will make sense. These are ridiculous posts, and though I believe you do wish it were true because it makes you feel better, it’s not.

  8. Patrick's avatar

    Typo- of course I meant most worthy.

  9. scepticus's avatar
    scepticus · · Reply

    Fallacy of composition Ben. Women control the ultmate economic lever which is reproduction. Ask the Italians, or Japanese. Women vote with their wombs and the impact of their behaviour is ruinous for these male dominated societies.
    Per-capita energy consumption (lets allow for a just moment that this increase is mainly faclitated by men) is directly negatively correlated with the birth rate. The only exceptions to this rule are in nations dominated by more female values, particularly in Scandinavia.
    Individually women may find it difficult to dominate but collectively they increasingly control the destiny of men. This is not merely a biological argument, but a coupling of biology and industry. All the inventions of men are slowly leading to the collective economic dominance of women.

  10. david's avatar

    Large penises relative to body size suggest sperm competition; sperm competition requires more than one male.
    The less dimorphic great apes can switch freely between polyandry to polygyny as the situation changes; perhaps humans can too.
    But monogamy is rarer. Gibbons are monogamous in behaviour, but have been observed to perform extra-pair copulations. But female gibbons assault other female gibbons for the same mate. That’s not conducive to harem formation. That probably serves some function in stabilizing monogamy.
    Also, it’s not necessary to make the female dependent on (positive) male investment relative to favour balanced gender demographics. Alpha male chimpanzees will regularly have their harem raided by defeated males; the raiders don’t even have to mate, they simply kill the children and run. Under some circumstances, merely bribing away these males with the chance of fatherhood is evolutionarily attractive, and accordingly, female chimpanzees will sneak out to mate with these raiders – instead of male investment, one has male blackmail.

  11. Ben's avatar

    Your excessive use of 3 syllable words doesn’t make your argument valid. I don’t need to ask the Italians or Japanese, because you’re defining to “success” as the continued existence of the species, which is not what the article (or I) was referring to. If men wanted women solely to reproduce they could make it happen; it’s happened before. Your comparison between reproductive rates and economic dominance are incomparable. I was making the point that women will only succeed in business or power as long as men allow it. The fact that any minor female accomplishment is met with heaps of praise by men(?) like you supports it.

  12. david's avatar

    What modern humans are undeniably distinct at, is breaking the link between reproduction and sex. Sex is fun. Reproduction can wait. But reproduction was supposed to be the expensive part, eh? So all whilst all this theorizing is fun for speculating about what modern humans want, it’s a terrible guide to family economics…

  13. scepticus's avatar
    scepticus · · Reply

    Ben, I agree that for a long time men have managed to control the reproductive functions of women. However that is not the case now in the developed nations and most of the developing nations. The only way for that to change is the regression of developed/developing nations to undeveloped ones. While I agree that is a possibility, it doesn’t seem likely.
    It is also not unreasonable to make the point that women are adept at exercising control collectively while men seem to dominate individual expression of control. In fact my reading of the article is alluding to excatly that. After all in the animal mammal kingdom it is not the females who get excluded, which speaks to their superiority in overall dynamics of the collective.

  14. hix's avatar

    This is bad. Too much hobby evolution biology. Besides that i dont understand this:
    ” Men won’t take traditionally female jobs, hence are stuck in joblessness.”
    Very implausible when the alternative is unemployment. More likely, hireing discrimination or just path dependency after picking a traditional male career at first according to gender roles.
    ” Men without work don’t get married, don’t form families, aren’t socialized to behave in a responsible fashion, and are a generally a social problem.”
    But that would automatically mean that just as many women dont get married and dont get socialiced or whatever. The situation we seem to have is that women strictly dont marry below their formal education level. Since women have overall higher education levels and men do marry below their educaton level, we have this comedic situation with lots of high educated unmarried women (not sure how well that can be generaliced across developed nations). Of course no one perceives people with college degrees upwards that are single as a socialization problem.

  15. marcel's avatar

    Frances: this comment thread has to be among the lowest quality I’ve ever seen on this blog. I think you should choose your topics with more care or moderate much less moderately!

  16. Patrick's avatar

    marcel: All flippancy aside – I’m usually a fan but the OP is really not so great. Male human bachelor herds? Seriously? It’s the twisted offspring of pop evolutionary biology, gender studies, and microeconomics. But no big deal. Nobody bats 1000. And Who am I to pass judgement from the rarefied heights of the peanut gallery anyway?
    On the plus side, it seems that Frances had a nice time in SA. Good for her.

  17. Bob Smith's avatar

    Hix: “Very implausible when the alternative is unemployment.”
    Not that implausible, when unemployment means living in your parents basement collecting the dole playing World of Warcraft. The phenomenon of perpetual male unemployment matched with female employment is a common to the underclass populations accross countries, race, cultures, etc.
    Hix: “But that would automatically mean that just as many women dont get married and dont get socialiced or whatever….Of course no one perceives people with college degrees upwards that are single as a socialization problem”
    Sure, but what proportion of the criminal population consists of single educated woman? Whereas single, uneducated, men have a distressing tendency to rob liquor stores, sell drugs, drive drunk, brawl, rape, loot, murder, pillage, plunder, etc.
    Patrick: “Male human bachelor herds?”
    I think we used to call them Vikings.

  18. Determinant's avatar
    Determinant · · Reply

    “carefree life in the bachelor herd might not be such a bad thing.”
    As you point out, lots of young men running around with nothing to do and no hope of ever getting laid is not a recipe for social stability. I’m imagining US gun laws crossed with herds of idle, sex starved young men. Something like Mad Max meets The Handmaid’s Tale.

    Determinant’s Wild Stallions is now open for recruiting. No bodice left unripped, no round left unfired, no container of booze left unempty. Leather optional but strongly preferred.
    We bring new meaning to the term “Stag Party” 😉

  19. Frances Woolley's avatar

    sure? “suggestion that men shouldn’t protest … seems ridiculous.”
    I wasn’t intending to suggest that men shouldn’t protest – the males of other species do. There is a difference between what people actually do, what they would do if they were reflective and self-interested (the economic idea of rational choice), and what people would do if they were acting in the best interests of their genes. It’s hard to imagine the thought process of a rational and self-interested male springbok (as opposed to a sex crazed one acting on impulse and instinct). However my sense is that the rational and self-interested male springbok would stick to the quiet bachelor herd life.
    scepticus – how are people different? as other people have suggested in the comments, brain size, adaptability, also the ability to separate sex and reproduction, which is crucial to the discussion.
    david “male blackmail” – interesting.
    K “Alpha males in charge” – My point is to present a counter-argument to the idea that social exclusion of men is the result of feminism or some kind of female conspiracy, not to defend the social exclusion of men, or the subordination of women.
    hix – click on the links. This isn’t my story, but one that is out there.
    marcel – sometimes I sleep.

  20. Frances Woolley's avatar

    Ben – I don’t know who the “you” in your comment refers to. Please clarify and focus your comments.
    As for the allegation that “Every advancement that allows a woman to be on top has been created and facilitated by a man…When a single woman innovates and achieves anything of that magnitude your position will make sense.”
    The entire point of the post is about competition between males for available resources. The fact that some men have come up with neat innovations and used them to acquire massive amounts of resources is in no way incompatible with the thesis of this post.

  21. Frances Woolley's avatar

    Patrick – thanks for the (heavily qualified) support.

  22. Peter T's avatar
    Peter T · · Reply

    If you are going to do evo psych, start with the basics – there are few binding laws for behaviour, so every species has to be actually, you know, looked at for how it has adapted and with what range of behaviour. Unlike, eg gorillas or chimpanzees, human male bonding is common (and patri-local pairing is most common). As someone said, 200 male chimpanzees in a room would lead to mass mayhem very quickly, but you can put 2000 human males in a room and they will form a structured herd. So the dynamics of alpha male behaviour in eg springboks don’t translate well to humans. The evidence on male dominance is patchy and overwritten by 10,000 odd years of farming (and hunter gatherer societies cover a wide range), but chest-beating male dominance seems to be rare and any capacity to gather a harem even more rare (the keys to power in most Australian aboriginal groups, for instance, was the support of senior males AND females). One key is our extreme sociality – humans are very nearly eusocial (try thinking about how many people it takes to maintain a language, and how critical language is to our development), so male competition is severely constrained by comparison with less social species. Any man who has “acquired massive amounts of resources” has done so with the cooperation and consent of many other men – and usually a lot of women (hard to be a CEO of anything bigger than a handful if everyone below is scheming to displace you).

  23. david's avatar

    It’s certainly a mistake to think that human wants are correlated well with what would create evolutionary success now, in an environment where it is far easier for an inventive mind to meet the wants directly, rather than satisfy the wants solely through the mechanism selected for under evolutionary pressures. e.g., having sex whilst taking birth control.
    Competitive and aggressive young males cause antisocial crime – in Western societies. In Japan they abandon the pursuit and, yes, consume pornography, exactly as predicted. This seems more like a crime and class problem than a gender one – Western law enforcement has been bad at keeping up with new ways for urban males to commit violence on other urban males.
    The future probably simply has a staggering level of female promiscuity, which would diminish competition amongst males for females. This is also associated with a collapse in male investment in individual females, however, which is where I suspect the “decline in men” writers are coming from. Conversely, females invest less in becoming attractive to males. If you were born attractive and popular, then that asset is suddenly a depreciating one.
    It will probably also be a highly unequal promiscuity: attractive males will have a lot of female partners, and attractive females will have a lot of male partners, and unattractive individuals will be locked out of the market – at least until we start becoming better at cosmetic alteration! Which we are already surprisingly good at, relative to most of human history. But I won’t be surprised if by 2100 everyone looks like a Greek god(dess), if they so do desire.

  24. Frances Woolley's avatar

    Peter T – “humans are very nearly eusocial” – this fits with the point I made in the post about “the crucial importance of productive and reproductive technologies”. [eusocial = cooperative reproduction]

  25. Patrick's avatar
    Patrick · · Reply

    Sure. I’m smarter for having read WCI over the last few years. Thanks for that. Given the price I can hardly complain if there’s an occasional post I’m not that into.

  26. curt doolittle's avatar

    Francis
    This post is uncharacteristically absent of any empirical or hisorical evidence.
    In practice, all major social upheavals have been caused by an excess supply of males.
    In fact, it us a requirement. Whether chinas civil wars, the protestant reformation or the arab spring the are dependent upon excess males.
    And your biological analogy fails to acknowledge what makes humans separate from other animals:
    The ability to organize, plan, concentrate force, and capture control.
    Canadian pacifism and Pinker’s feminine fantasy to the contrary.
    Males are where nature experiments.
    Females are along for the ride.

  27. curt doolittle's avatar

    Apologies for iPhone related typos. 😉

  28. Frances Woolley's avatar

    Curt “This post is uncharacteristically absent of any empirical or hisorical evidence.”
    Click on the links.

  29. david's avatar

    Surely the degree of excess of males is endogenous to social institutions.

  30. david's avatar

    Also, did I lose a comment in the mod queue, or did my browser eat it 😦

  31. Frances Woolley's avatar

    david, you were stuck in spam. Interesting observation about Japan – though the amount of male violence differs across Western societies. Alcohol use, drug policy and video games are also big parts of the male violence story.
    “The future probably simply has a staggering level of female promiscuity” – I don’t know what that would mean. 5 partners in a lifetime? 10? 20? 50? 100? 500? 1000?
    In Western societies, the inverted population pyramid (there are more people in their 50s than in their 30s) combined with some males’ preference for younger or much younger partners has to be having some effects on the dating market.

  32. Chris Naden's avatar

    Ben @05.44: “What modern humans are undeniably distinct at, is breaking the link between reproduction and sex.”
    Um. You do know that’s not even remotely true, right? Seriously. Look up bonobos, who by an odd chance happen to be one of three species in our immediate family. And they’re not the only ones who have sex for fun, either.
    Frances @01.42: “any capacity to gather a harem even more rare”
    Hmm. Really no, it’s actually very common across human societies: even the US, where there was an awful lot of Mormon harems within the last two hundred years. If you meant, rare on an individual basis, I might buy that; see below on JCI religious patriarchy and similar institutions.
    I grew up in a culture which is useful to look at (the Mamprusi tribe, in Mampurugu in Northern Ghana). In the two generations immediately above mine (I’m 35), reflecting a ‘time immemorial’ social structure, the typical household had a single alpha male with a harem of 3-5 breeding females of whom one would be alpha, and anything up to 60 people in the troupe (household). And there was a very specific, survivalist reason for that; the adult sex ratios over the time we have records vary between M:F 1:4 and 1:8. You want a working society, you have to come up with a system for that.
    The cause, btw, was infant male deaths due to malaria taking 3 in 5 male children before the age of 1 (vs. 1 in 5 female) and a further 2 in 5 of the survivors before 5 years old (vs 0.8 in females). Fluctuations in ratio towards the extremes typically reflect local drought / famine cycles; in drought conditions, male deaths prior to puberty go up much faster than female, and in conditions of plenty, less male babies die than in ‘normal’ times. Effective modern medical and post-natal care became available over the course of the 60s – 70s, and the survival rates balanced out very quickly. Lo and behold, in my generation, virtually no-one isn’t monogamous. The fact that both Christianity and Islam are present in the local religious environment might have affected this, but that was studied by an anthropologist from Berkley who stayed with us while doing her field work; both JCI religions were thoroughly embedded in that culture for periods measured in decades or centuries with zero impact on marital behaviour, whereas the shift in marriage practices happened immediately when the infant mortality situation changed.
    Harem formation among humans is not at all rare, and in every case I know of, came from one of two initial conditions; either a shortage of men reaching breeding age and a surplus of females (e.g. the Malaria Coast, to which it is a pretty rational societal response) or a massive imbalance of power and wealth accruing to a small percentage of men and being reinforced by socio-religious norms (e.g. patriarchy of the Western Christian or near-Eastern Islamic sort). If you look at Restoration England, you’ll see exactly this latter picture; men of wealth and station, even if they were not alpha males within their own troupe (heads of family) accumulated and supported harems, often very large ones, as a matter of course. Women were supported entirely by these men in return for sexual access and exclusivity, i.e. formal mistresses in addition to wives. Precisely the same is true of Tokugawan Japan, ancient Rome and Greece, pre-Islamic Persia, large parts of Vedic India, and so on.
    Some human cultures rely on harem structures due to survival pressures. Most human cultures that sponsor harems do so in a selective and socially mediated model where the rationale is derived from the self-interest of the dominant males in society, excused by religious sophistry, and boils down to “Because we’re worth it.” This is the same argument used to support the egregious compensation scale for financial services employees and executives today, who (as any tabloid will remind us) also accumulate harems as a matter of course. Such systems are typically maintained by direct and indirect violence against non-alpha males and all females; a particularly good case study of that can be found in US ghetto culture, where males who survive long enough to become alphas accumulate harems, maintain hierarchies through violence and exterminate as much male competition as possible by engaging in constant status conflicts and using the youngest, lowest-status males as 9mm-fodder.
    The difference between how that works in the War on Drugs, and how the same system worked in, say, the Wars of the Roses, is negligible.
    You raise the fact that these structures are often, indeed typically, underpinned by active collusion from lower status males and from higher-status females. You’re completely right. It’s called the kyriarchy.

  33. Chris Naden's avatar

    And, while I’m here, to David @ 05.33:
    “Alcohol use, drug policy and video games are also big parts of the male violence story.”
    The first two? No question. The third one? If you’re suggesting that video games make males more violent, you’re empirically wrong, and are almost certainly over 40.
    The closest thing to a correlation anyone’s ever managed to actually demonstrate is that playing violent video games (i.e. exercising frustration and rage in a fantasy, a simulated setting) makes young angry men less likely to initiate violence in person; for the obvious reason that they are able to find catharsis in simulated violence. Video games are a safety valve, not an incitement.

  34. Chris Naden's avatar

    Oh dear. I’ve just realised I’m reading the attributions here completely wrong, as I’m used to them being above rather than below the relevant comment. I suspect that both of my substantive comments are addressed to the wrong commenter, I do apologise!

  35. Frances Woolley's avatar

    Chris – “the adult sex ratios over the time we have records vary between M:F 1:4 and 1:8.” – this is absolutely fascinating, I had no idea there was such a huge gender difference in malaria-related mortality.
    When I told my guide in Botswana that large parts of the world from the Pakistan through to northern India and China had more men than women he was absolutely stunned. He took it as a fundamental biological law that F>M. And as you may know, Botswanian guides tend to be pretty educated middle class folks, because being a guide is one of the best paid/highest status jobs around.
    “If you’re suggesting that video games make males more violent, you’re empirically wrong, and are almost certainly over 40.”
    That was unclear. From the limited number of studies I can find, it seems that the displacement effect dominates any other effects – i.e. people tend to just lie around on the sofa playing Grand Theft Auto rather than going out into the real world (where it’s cold, damp, dark and dangerous) and doing real world Grand Theft Auto. In other words, I agree with you.

  36. Chris Naden's avatar

    Frances:
    ” I had no idea there was such a huge gender difference in malaria-related mortality.”
    Yah, and it doesn’t just apply to the Malaria Coast, either. It’s responsible for unusual social arrangements in other places, including Siberian nomadic tribes. It’s also not just about malaria, though; male babies are universally weaker and more prone to dying than female. They just are. Malaria happens to be a general killer which, when it is endemic, really really accentuates that weakness in male babies. There was then a secondary effect, which largely disappeared from the tribe I grew up with in colonial times, which is that boys who did survive past 5 were much more likely than girls to die between 15-25; intra- or inter-tribal warfare being common.
    “He took it as a fundamental biological law that F>M.”
    Absent high-quality, universally accessible health care or massively deformative government policies (e.g. China) he’s basically right. Contrary to popular opinion, you actually need a pretty healthy, well-fed and stable society before that society as a whole can start actively selecting for male children by exposing or aborting females, etc. In situations like the Mamprusi, you try and save every male baby you can, sure, but you try to save every baby you can. You’re going to need the workers. With the inbuilt bias towards male babies being prone to dying and male adolescents and young adults being the traditional weapons of alpha-male status conflicts, that does mean you’re going to find a lot of social orders which are adapted to an F>M imbalance; which, of course, you do.
    “That was unclear. From the limited number of studies I can find…”
    Indeed. There’s some work, currently suggestive rather than conclusive, that’s based on the very novel approach of actually asking gamers what effect games have on them and paying attention to the replies, which have started people looking towards the explanation I provided. A very large proportion of teenage male (and, possibly not surprisingly, a good proportion of teenage female) gamers report that they explicitly choose FPS and RPG/MMORPG game types because it acts for them as a release valve for frustration with school, bullies, parents or siblings and allows them to avoid hauling off and clouting someone who richly deserves it.
    Some older gamers report the same, but it is noticeable that older gamers (i.e. people who are more fully socialised and have a higher chance of actually getting their way occasionally than teenagers) will typically say they choose FPS / RPG games because they are engaged mostly by the story or by the tactical challenges of navigating a combat scenario. There’s also a survey out there (I think I may have read it in Slate?) which looks at when/how/why the meme of blaming specifically school shootings on violent videogames started, and the extent to which it was a known untruth adopted by right-wing commentators to occlude the fact that the Columbine killers were not victim / geeks in a revenge fantasy but cool kid / bullies in a narcissistic one.
    Here’s a link which covers some of that ground with regard to Columbine, but the piece I’m remembering started from a shooting in the very early 90s, and followed the build-up of this canard towards it’s popular acceptence after the spin machine distorted Columbine.

  37. david's avatar

    “The future probably simply has a staggering level of female promiscuity” – I don’t know what that would mean. 5 partners in a lifetime? 10? 20? 50? 100? 500? 1000?
    In Western societies, the inverted population pyramid (there are more people in their 50s than in their 30s) combined with some males’ preference for younger or much younger partners has to be having some effects on the dating market.

    New Zealand women already reported twenty, back in that Durex international survey. That’s already quite a lot.
    Although this reporting is often contradictory with male reporting, given prevailing sex ratios, so a non-trivial amount of lying to interviewers is going on.
    True on the inverted pyramid. But also consider: women are also becoming much more successful at slowing apparent aging. Forty-year-old women in the developed world look much younger than forty-year-old women in the developing world. Simply avoiding outdoor activity works wonders.

  38. david's avatar

    I should point out that one also has polyandrous harem formation in human societies, under given social institutions.
    Matriarchal societies have this going for them: every inheritance is certain; claimed mothers of daughters are known to be the definite mother, whereas fatherhood is always dubious. Hence concentration of wealth (on the female side instead of the male), and hence matriarchal polyandry.

  39. Kathleen's avatar
    Kathleen · · Reply

    Chris- That was one of the most interesting and illuminating posts I’ve read on the internet in ages. Thank you.

  40. Mandos's avatar

    A lot of the End of Men stuff is looking at a time-window of social change that is rather short to draw many conclusions from. The social revolutions that led to the present situation in developed societies are so recent compared to many of the structures they replaced, that it seems rather strange to draw any sort of grand evolutionary theses out of the situation,

  41. Unknown's avatar

    Chris: “The cause, btw, was infant male deaths due to malaria taking 3 in 5 male children before the age of 1 (vs. 1 in 5 female) and a further 2 in 5 of the survivors before 5 years old (vs 0.8 in females).”
    That really surprised me (I’m not saying you are wrong). Why was there that massive difference in M/F death rates? Any ideas? Differential susceptibility? Differential preventative resources?

  42. Unknown's avatar

    Chris Naden is stuck in spam, about 4 hours ago.

  43. Chris Naden's avatar

    Nick: am I? That explains it 🙂 I assume that response will show up at some stage.
    David @ 08.09:
    “I should point out that one also has polyandrous harem formation in human societies, under given social institutions. ”
    Absolutely. I think it’s Nepal where this is currently happening among Sherpa?
    Kathleen @ 10.01:
    Thank you 🙂
    Nick Rowe @ 11.49:
    Male babies are both more susceptible to disease in general, and particularly, weaker in constitution (heart, lung and lymph systems) than female babies. In the case of a disease such as malaria which causes very intense fevers, male babies simply have less stamina for fighting the disease off; the fevers kill them quicker. You see the same happening in medieval Europe with diseases like measles and chickenpox, and in the US with scarlet fever outbreaks in the pioneer era. However, the relative imbalance never rose as high, in part because none of those diseases do anything like the acute and intense systemic overload of malarial fever in the first three days. I ran a temperature of 107C for three days in a malarial attack in my teens; if I’d been under 5 and had no access to modern treatments I’d be dead, but a female would have had about a 60/40 chance of surviving, with a 10% chance of permanent brain damage.
    Related note: this is why sickle cell anaemia is the enormous problem it is. It makes the carrier immune to malaria, which means you get much, much better infant survivability and much more even population distributions in tribes which carried sickle cell.
    Another good thing to look at is the ‘sweating fever’ which swept England in Henry VIII’s reign. We know shockingly little about what it was, apart from being fairly sure it wasn’t anything we’ve ever seen before or since, and its death-toll was very bad among infants; and killed a lot more boys than girls, including an infant heir to the throne iirc. For reference, I’m an historian and pub manager, not a medic, I only know this stuff because I grew up knee-deep in it 🙂

  44. Bob Smith's avatar

    “This seems more like a crime and class problem than a gender one – Western law enforcement has been bad at keeping up with new ways for urban males to commit violence on other urban males.”
    Kinda hard to ignore the gender aspect when we witness profoundly anti-social behaviour amongst disparate groups and circumstances (from inner-city Baltimore, to suburban Scotland, to Japan, to rural India (think the epedemic of sexual violence in that country has nothing to do with the “suplus” male population arising from sex-selective abortion?) connected by a single trait. Gender may not be the sole cause of that behaviour, but it clearly plays a role.

  45. Nick Rowe's avatar

    Chris Naden’s comment from the spam filter:
    “Frances: ” I had no idea there was such a huge gender difference in malaria-related mortality.” Yah, and it doesn’t just apply to the Malaria Coast, either. It’s responsible for unusual social arrangements in other places, including Siberian nomadic tribes. It’s also not just about malaria, though; male babies are universally weaker and more prone to dying than female. They just are. Malaria happens to be a general killer which, when it is endemic, really really accentuates that weakness in male babies. There was then a secondary effect, which largely disappeared from the tribe I grew up with in colonial times, which is that boys who did survive past 5 were much more likely than girls to die between 15-25; intra- or inter-tribal warfare being common. “He took it as a fundamental biological law that F>M.” Absent high-quality, universally accessible health care or massively deformative government policies (e.g. China) he’s basically right. Contrary to popular opinion, you actually need a pretty healthy, well-fed and stable society before that society as a whole can start actively selecting for male children by exposing or aborting females, etc. In situations like the Mamprusi, you try and save every male baby you can, sure, but you try to save every baby you can. You’re going to need the workers. With the inbuilt bias towards male babies being prone to dying and male adolescents and young adults being the traditional weapons of alpha-male status conflicts, that does mean you’re going to find a lot of social orders which are adapted to an F>M imbalance; which, of course, you do. “That was unclear. From the limited number of studies I can find…” Indeed. There’s some work, currently suggestive rather than conclusive, that’s based on the very novel approach of actually asking gamers what effect games have on them and paying attention to the replies, which have started people looking towards the explanation I provided. A very large proportion of teenage male (and, possibly not surprisingly, a good proportion of teenage female) gamers report that they explicitly choose FPS and RPG/MMORPG game types because it acts for them as a release valve for frustration with school, bullies, parents or siblings and allows them to avoid hauling off and clouting someone who richly deserves it. Some older gamers report the same, but it is noticeable that older gamers (i.e. people who are more fully socialised and have a higher chance of actually getting their way occasionally than teenagers) will typically say they choose FPS / RPG games because they are engaged mostly by the story or by the tactical challenges of navigating a combat scenario. There’s also a survey out there (I think I may have read it in Slate?) which looks at when/how/why the meme of blaming specifically school shootings on violent videogames started, and the extent to which it was a known untruth adopted by right-wing commentators to occlude the fact that the Columbine killers were not victim / geeks in a revenge fantasy but cool kid / bullies in a narcissistic one. Here’s a link which covers some of that ground with regard to Columbine, but the piece I’m remembering started from a shooting in the very early 90s, and followed the build-up of this canard towards it’s popular acceptence after the spin machine distorted Columbine.”
    The above was Chris Naden. Sorry about the (lack of) formatting.

  46. Nick Rowe's avatar

    Chris: thanks.
    I copied your comment from the spam filter, and posted it as a comment, and then it (of course!) put my comment in spam too!
    Never mind. Frances or Stephen will retrieve it. (I can read, but not retrieve.)

  47. Nick Rowe's avatar

    I’m not sure about this. Suppose that males were more susceptible to disease, so that by the time of puberty, there were more females than males in the population. That would seem to violate Fisher’s principle (if that sea ratio differential persisted for long enough for evolution to work).

  48. Nick Rowe's avatar

    On second thoughts, maybe I have misapplied Fisher’s Principle. The increased probability of a boy dying would be exactly offset by the surviving boys having more wives.

  49. Unknown's avatar

    Nick, will reply later.

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